How it works

Some issues we discuss:


Abortion, Addiction, Anger, Anxiety, Stress, Conflict, Denial, Despair, Desperation, , Divorce, Domestic violence, Emotional hurt, Family breakdown, Broken Friendships, Grief, Guilt, Health worries, Infertility, Infidelity, Joblessness, Loneliness, Loss, Miscarriage, Mistrust, Obsessions, Phobias, Relationships, Sadness, Sex-related matters, Sexuality, Spirituality, Trauma, Work-related issues.

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We guarantee that all interactions with us are 100% private and secure. By using our contact form your communication cannot be traced and the information is not stored.

Our personnel will never seek to ascertain your identity and users are asked to maintain their anonymity when interacting with us.


We are not interested in personalities but rather in working with people to empower them to overcome the challenges they encounter.


We cover a wide range of issues but we focus on depression and loneliness. Please contact us in confidence and discuss anything that's on your mind.


Terms of Use


By accessing the Iamhere4u website you (the caller) agree that:




  • you are not homicidal or suicidal.
  • you are at least 18 years old and capable of entering a binding contract under applicable law to use Services.




  • no action can be taken against Iamhere4U toward any claims made during a call as all users are anonymous.
  • you understand that the service does not provide professional advice but instead is a means of venting and an opportunity to explore options.
  • you understand that the service is not for mental illness diagnosis or psychological therapy.
  • you access the service at your own risk.
  • Iamhere4u does not evaluate, provide, produce or control listening services, or the information or exchanges between members, in any manner.
  • Iamhere4u does not provide and is not responsible for any content or information that you receive or share through the service.
  • Iamhere4u does not monitor any communications or information exchanged, and, as in this regard does not control, or is responsible for the truth, accuracy, completeness, safety, timeliness, quality, appropriateness, legality or applicability of anything said, depicted or written by users.
  • we do not represent or warrant that any confidant you select is qualified or licensed to provide any information you seek.
  • you and the confidant are solely responsible for your conversations and communications. Whether or not you rely on any advice or information given is your decision.
  • Iamhere4U does not provide and is not responsible for any content or information that you receive or share through the Iamhere4U site.



  • we may, at our sole discretion, suspend or terminate your access to all or part of our website with or without notice and for any reason, including, without limitation, breach of this User Agreement.
  • any suspected illegal, fraudulent or abusive activity is grounds for terminating your relationship with Iamhere4U and this may be referred to appropriate law enforcement authorities.
  • upon suspension or termination, your right to use the site will immediately cease, and we reserve the right to remove or delete any information that you may have on file with us, including any account information.


As a member or guest, your personal information is never shared with our confidants or anyone else.


PLEASE NOTE: We do not offer refunds.

Call us if you are sad, lonely, miserable, nostalgic or hurting!


Call us too if you are happy and just want to talk.

How to use Iamhere4u

The service offered at Iamhere4u allows you to call your selected operator £1.99 per minute over land line or mobile phone lines (our system calls your phone and connects you with your confidant).


All calls are private, our confidants do not see your phone number.


Step 1: Sign up as a member


Step 2: Add funds to your account using your credit card.

(We accept all major Credit Cards and Paypal).



Step 3: Start making calls